Emotions are vital to our everyday existence. They propel us to move forward, face our fears and conquer our dreams. But they also can be debilitating, consuming and overwhelming. Most people don’t give too much attention when things are going right in their life. They take for granted that their hard work, positive thinking and faith has blessed them with abundance for the day. But you can be certain, that we give more focus to our life when things don’t go our way, we are having a bad day, our “luck” is unlucky and we just feel defeated. Why is that? Why do we dwell and place emphasis on negative things in life (the news for example, but that is another soapbox for another day), rather than expose, and give more attention to the good things in our life?
In my opinion, it’s because we get stuck. Our “emotional clock” stops moving. We idle in the misery and undesirable circumstances. We forget to grab our tools, face the problem at hand and find a solution (rather quickly) so it becomes a challenge or task, rather than a burden.
My background in psychology, business management and private consultations has helped me realize an important need in natural health – emotional health. You can work on physical ailments all you want, but until you address the emotional side to those physical imbalances, you will not be whole, hence the term, holistic health. This is one reason I focus on Emotional Health Consultations – to help people realize their personal potential by tapping into your inner self to expose your challenges, dreams and talents. It works the same for professional development, determining what is holding you back from being your true, authentic self (from a place of self-live rather than judgment) and devise a plan to help your business move forward in a healthy, productive and positive direction. When you connect your emotions, mind and body together, anything is possible. You find true inner happiness to love what you do, and do what you love.
I find that in the process, there are 3 main obstacles that one must overcoming to release their fear and lead with courage.
The first is releasing self-defeating behaviors. As we get older, our personality and behaviors are molded from our experiences. They can help bring us out of our shell and be more extroverted (i.e. team sports). Or they can make us go inward, become more introverted and dim our inner light (i.e. bullying). Don’t let learned or manifested behaviors define you. Stop reacting in survival mode and start responding with behaviors that serve you, make you whole, nourish your spirit and encourage your dreams.
Two is learning who you really are. After trying to be something to everyone else, we lose our self-identity. Instead, we create and act from a façade, or false identity. Stop resisting your true inner nature, stop pleasing everyone else, and start living for you. What makes you happy? What do you love? Who are you as a person, not a title?
Three, is to dream. We forget that dreams happen every day. The best creations, accomplishments, inventions and experiences come from those who allowed themselves to think. To have an idea and see that idea through until fruition. Dreaming can happen at any age, any stage of life, for anyone.
So, what’s stopping you from moving forward? Why are you stuck? If you are like me, it’s hard helping yourself. So it is really important to enlist the help of others who can mentor, support, encourage and honor you. Two of my favorite “mental health” mentors are Dr. Alison Caldwell-Andrews who has helped me tap into my inner “malware” to recognize my self-worth, potential and true self. Lynn Allen, a mental health professional (and one of my closest friends) has guided me through a step-by-step process of recognizing stuck behavioral patterns and creating an action plan to move forward.
This mentorship coupled with aromatherapy, has really made a difference in my overall mind-body health. Here are some of my favorite “get unstuck”, move forward” and “conquer the world” scents:
- Orange is awesome to inspire creativity, fun, joy and child-like wonder.
- Patchouli helps one let go of past hurts, thoughts, behaviors and resentment.
- Roman Chamomile is the “caretaker of the bunch”. It helps you take care of and nourish yourself.
- Thyme can help you establish an honor your boundaries.
- Lemon to light the way so you can connect back to yourself and shine forward.
Let your inner warrior shine. You got this. Let go and let yourself live, in the present moment, as you were meant to be.
Article References: JennScents Holistic Comprehensive Guide, JennScents Aromaversity Classes, JennScents E-books and Reference Material
Author: Jennifer Pressimone, Entrepreneur, Formulator, Author
Jennifer Pressimone is an aromatherapy entrepreneur (an Aromapreneur™). She is the founder and President of JennScents®, Inc. and the JennScents Aromaversity®. She is the Vice-President and Regional Florida Director of Central Florida for the National Association of Holistic Aromatherapy (NAHA). Jennifer has build, managed and maintained several health and wellness businesses over the last 20 years. She is an incredibly gifted essential oil formulator, aromatherapy educator, public speaker, herbalist, author and philanthropist. She leads with passion, experience and heart to inspire, empower and motivate others to not only follow their dreams, but crush it, realizing more than they ever imagined possible. Jennifer is a life coach and business mentor. She received her Bachelor's Degree in Psychology from the University of Central Florida, and has thousands of hours in continuing education in many health and wellness topics. Her specialties include mind-body health, gastrointestinal health and cognitive aromatherapy for humans and pets.
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